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Three Tips For How to Have a Successful Open Adoption

Three Tips For How to Have a Successful Open Adoption Open adoptions are one of the three main types of adoption that are available for you to select as a birth mother. Each has their own pros and cons; yet,  more and more birth mothers are preferring open adoption above the other two types. As an agency, we strongly advocate for open adoptions as well. We believe that they truly keep everyone’s best interests at heart and are among the most successful adoption stories. That said, if you are trying to determine which type of adoption is best for you and your baby, we are here to help. Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri wants to provide you with three tips on how to have a successful open adoption.  Take…

Transracial Adoption Success Story 

Transracial Adoption Success Story  When a birth mother hears about transracial adoption, there may be feelings of worry surrounding how her child will remember and learn about his or her birth family and community. This valid concern is not always met with an easy answer or solution. Many transracial adoptees may not grow up to know about their birth families and cultures, which can lead to poor self- esteem and feelings of isolation within their adoptive families.  Yet, there are just as many transracial adoptees who have had positive experiences with their adoptive families, who have prioritized the adoptee’s cultural identity. This week Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri will be discussing a transracial adoption success story and what has made it successful. Today, we will be hearing Elisa’s story…

Open Adoption Success Story

Open Adoption Success Story The adoption process is something that both adoptive families and birth mothers should consider and take seriously. This includes choosing what level of openness you want to have in your adoption agreement plan. There are three levels to choose from: open, semi-open and closed. Each level has their own pros and cons and requires research to determine which best fits you and your family.  Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri encourages open adoption, as we believe this agreement keeps everyone’s best interests at heart. It allows birth mothers to have more control over their adoption journey and helps you establish strong, healthy relationships with your child’s adoptive parents. Open adoptions also typically mean that your child will be able to build an equally strong and healthy…

Single Parent Adoption Success Story

Single Parent Adoption Success Story For the month of July, Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri will be focusing on adoption stories. This week, we will be discussing single parent adoption success and what that means. Until recently, single parent adoption was quite uncommon and has been framed in negativity in the past. Our society has held to the stereotype that a child needs two parents. However, single women and men have shown in recent decades that they are just as successful to be parents.  It is important to note that no one is perfect and everyone has a different definition of “success.” Being a single parent of an adopted child is a unique experience that is both rewarding and challenging. Having a strong support system as a single parent is…

Types of Birth Fathers- Known vs. Unknown

Types of Birth Fathers- Known vs. Unknown There may be many things that come to mind when you think of a birth father. You might think of a birth father as the father of a child who he is not aware of or present in the child’s life. You might think of a birth father as someone who is not married to a birth mother. There are many assumptions one can make, whether correct or incorrect, about who a birth father is. Yet, many beliefs are founded upon stereotypes that are negative and portray all birth fathers as absent, careless and lazy. There is not much accurate information available about birth fathers in general. However, Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri believes it is important to recognize that birth fathers are…

Choosing a Single Adoptive Father as a Birth Mother

Choosing a Single Adoptive Father as a Birth Mother A child does not have to grow up in a mother-father dynamic in order to be loved unconditionally. Choosing a single adoptive father as a birth mother has many positive aspects, such as an increased sense of independence and a stronger work ethic. As a birth mother, you don’t need to feel like you’re sacrificing the future of your child by choosing a single adoptive father. You may have specific wants and requirements for your child’s life that only he could provide. So, think of it more as you are merely selecting a different path.  Deciding who will raise your child is not something to be taken lightly. It takes a lot of thought and research. But don’t worry – you…

Gift Ideas for Birth Fathers

Gift Ideas for Birth Fathers With Father’s Day fast approaching, you may be wondering what you could give to your child’s birth father as a gift. After all, with you having recently celebrated Mother’s Day, chances are that you may have received something from him. For birth fathers, Father’s Day brings a lot of meaning to them. Whether he is a first-time father or already has children, the title of “father” celebrates a huge accomplishment and is a sense of pride.  That said, what are the best gifts to commemorate the occasion? WDon’t worry. We have you covered. We’ve compiled a list of  great gift ideas for birth fathers. We hope that you will consider some of these gifts if you are having trouble deciding what to give your child’s…

Ways to Celebrate Birth Fathers on Father’s Day

Ways to Celebrate Birth Fathers on Father’s Day With Father’s Day this weekend, you may be thinking about ways to celebrate birth fathers on Father’s Day. Typically Father’s Day overlooks birth fathers and their significance, but they too should be celebrated and acknowledged. Celebrating birth fathers on Father’s Day can look different for everyone. Some may have a tradition they share with loved ones, or some may do something individually to celebrate the day. Regardless of the form of celebration on Father’s Day, Adoption Choices of Missouri recognizes the importance of birth fathers as they have brought life into the world and will forever be a part of their child.  When a birth father is not present in a child’s life, it can be a challenge to answer questions the…

Signs an Adoptive Father will Be Great for Your Child

Signs an Adoptive Father will Be Great for Your Child Whether you’re a birth mother thinking about adoption or you’ve already committed to making an adoption plan, you may be wondering what some signs an adoptive father will be great for your child are? Taking this step to think about adoptive parents is a courageous and selfless act, as you are putting the best interests for your child first. As a birth mother, it can be difficult not to doubt such a life-changing decision and to deal with overwhelming emotions at times, but know that Adoption Choices of Missouri  is here for you. We stand behind your choice to choose adoption for your child.  Meeting with prospective adoptive families and asking questions can be very helpful to determine if a…

The Pros and Cons of LGBT Adoption

The Pros and Cons of LGBT Adoption The LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) community has been through a lot over the past five years. It was only then when the supreme court ruled that LGBT couples could legally get married. They have constantly been hurt by others, and many members of this community may suffer doubts as a result. In terms of adoption, however, they are one of the most popular types of couples and individuals that birth mothers choose when considering adoption.  Today, Adoption Choices of Missouri wants to highlight the many pros and cons of LGBT adoption. Pros of LGBT Adoption Two parents of the same sex can be good for development. With LGBT couples, it is no surprise that a major benefit is having two parents…

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