As an adoptee, you’ve wondered about the why’s of your adoption. Why was I placed for adoption? Why couldn’t my birth mother keep me? Why were my adoptive parents chosen? Why am I struggling with my identity? All in all, you were brought into this world and then raised in it in an “unconventional” way. The curiosity you feel is only natural. While your adoptive parents are able to satisfy most of your questions, there are some left unanswered. Specifically those regarding your birth mother. Whether your adoption is open, semi-open, or closed determines the level of contact you have with her. Regardless, you still wonder. What happened? Did she not want me? Does she even love me? Maybe you have burning questions for her that you’re too afraid to ask.…
Local Missouri Adoption Agency
Facing an unplanned, unexpected, or unwanted pregnancy? Considering adoption? At Adoption Choices of Missouri, we understand this is a very stressful and confusing time for you. We are not here to convince you what you should do; this is your decision and yours alone. Rather, our compassionate team is here to guide and support you through the adoption process should you decide that this is the right choice for you and your baby. Exploring our agency, you will read (or hear) the terms adoption social worker, adoption specialist, or caseworker. In the big picture, these are one in the same, the professional support we provide to our birth mothers. We will discuss the differences of each of these later. But what’s most important for you to know is that Adoption Choices…
The Adoption Process
The adoption process can feel daunting, overwhelming, confusing, and scary. You are not alone! We are here to help. In the most simplistic way, here is a step by step guide for adopting with Adoption Choices of Missouri and Kansas STEP 1 | CONTACT ADOPTION CHOICES OF MISSOURI and Kansas Call Us 877-903-4488 Text Us 316-209-2071 STEP 2 | SCHEDULE INITIAL MEETING Birth Parent Counselor can come to you STEP 3 | COMPLETE PAPERWORK Birth Parent Counselor will provide you with all the necessary paperwork. Please bring a proof of pregnancy with you. STEP 4 | FIND A DOCTOR The matching process begins STEP 5 | REVIEW FAMILY PROFILES Birth Parent Counselor will bring you profiles to choose from. Don’t feel you have the right family? We’ll get more profiles. STEP 6…
Top 10 Questions by Women Considering Adoption
If you have found this article, you are probably an expectant mother considering adoption as an option for a unplanned, crisis, or unwanted pregnancy. Since we are often asked similar questions, 1) you can trust that you are not alone! And 2) we have compiled some of our most common adoption questions asked by expectant mothers considering adoption with Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri. 1. If I contact Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri, am I obligated to choose adoption? When you contact Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri, an adoption specialist will help you objectively explore adoption to determine if it is the best choice for you and your baby, and they will help answer any of your other adoption questions. If you decide adoption is right for you, your adoption…
The Hospital Experience for Birth Mothers
For birth mothers, the hospital stay is incredibly strenuous both physically and mentally. Because of this, it is important to set up a hospital plan, so that you can be fully prepared for what to expect. In the hospital, the birth mother has options about what she wants to do both before, during, and after birth. In Missouri, there are specific practices that help birth mothers through the hospital stay process. Below is some specific information for birth parents looking to create a hospital plan in the state of Missouri. Consent for adoption: In Missouri, before the adoption can become official, there is a 48- hour waiting period. After that 48 hours, the birth mother can officially give her consent. The birth father, if present, can give his consent at any…
Single Person Adoption
A common misconception with adoption is that you must be married to adopt. However, a single person can adopt if they would like to add a child to their life. Adoption gives you the option to raise a child, love him/her, and give them a caring and supportive home that they simply did not have before. Single-parent adoption is absolutely a possibility and Adoption Choices of Missouri understands that every family, and every adoption plan, is unique! Our staff will help you make an adoption plan that meets your needs with care and compassion. Things to Consider As a single person, it’s important to keep in mind that there are some factors you should consider before making that final move towards adoption. We recommend examining these factors yourself first, then contacting an adoption…
Birth Mother, Birth Father, Adoptive Family – Adoption Terms Defined
If you are an expectant mother and considering adoption for your baby or you are an adoptive family, hoping to add a baby to your family, we know all the information and resources can be overwhelming. We try to compile this information, resources, news, and include experience and expertise to help you understand every aspect of your adoption journey. In this article we define some of the most popular terms you will come across while researching adoption. Adoptee. A person who was adopted. Some people prefer the terms “adopted child” or “adopted person.” Adoption. The complete transfer of parental rights and obligations from one parent or set of parents to another. A legal adoption requires a court action. Adoption Agency. An organization, like Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri, usually…
Birth Mother Application
If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and considering adoption, you need Adoption Choices of Kansas & Missouri. BIRTH MOTHER INTAKE FORM Your reason for considering adoption is individual. You might be struggling to make ends meet or trying to further your education. Perhaps the father is not around or refuses to take responsibility. Maybe you are already parenting a child and you know you cannot take on the further responsibility of raising another child. No matter your situation, placing your baby up for adoption at birth can be a positive and loving experience for all concerned. At no-cost to expectant mothers, Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri offers a variety of birth mother support! We are a LOCAL agency providing compassionate, personalized adoption services. We get to know you so…
Do I get paid for adoption?
If you’re unexpectedly pregnant, having to worry about money can put you under additional stress. Adoption Choices of Missouri and Kansas works to help expectant mothers receive as much financial assistance for placing your baby for adoption as possible while you're going through the adoption process. We want you to have one less thing on your troubled mind. If your circumstances allow, we can help you find financial assistance for everyday costs like: Housing and Rent Medical care Transportation And more Additionally, all of our legal services are offered completely free of charge to you along with some adoption services like: Helping you sign up for free medical care throughout your pregnancy and delivery Access to free counseling and support services before, during and after the adoption; whenever…
I want to give my baby up for adoption, help!
If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy, considering your options, and researching the process of placing a child for adoption, you may feel overwhelmed by the amount of information available. Fortunately, you are not alone, and with a little guidance, you can make the decision that’s best for you and your baby! This is an outline of the steps you can follow if you decide that adoption is the right choice for you and your baby. The process will be different for every woman, and when you contact Adoption Choices of Missouri, we will help you make a more detailed plan that fits your needs and your pregnancy. Visit your doctor If you believe that you are pregnant, you should visit your doctor or OB/GYN specialist to confirm that you…