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Why I Chose Adoption for My Child: Stacy’s Story as a Birth Mother

Why I Chose Adoption for My Child: Stacy’s Story as a Birth Mother in Kansas If you are familiar with our adoption center in Kansas and Missouri, you know that every birth mother has their own story. That they have their own reasons and motivations behind placing their baby for adoption. This is part of why each and every adoption process is as unique as the birth mother behind the wheel. No two birth mothers are alike, yet they all share one thing in common -- their decision to give their child a better life through the miracle of adoption. Stacy is no exception. Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri had the honor of interviewing Stacy, a happily married birth mother with two kids in Michigan, and learning the reasons behind…

Creating an Adoption Plan as a Birth Mother in Kansas and Missouri

Creating an Adoption Planas a Birth Mother in Kansas and Missouri When preparing to give birth, there are so many things you realize you need to prepare for. Whether you will be raising your child or placing him or her for adoption, a plan of action on how you would like things to be is always best. If you’ve chosen adoption for your child, this would include creating an adoption plan. As a birth mother in Kansas, you may be wondering what your options are and what kind of adoption plan is right for you. You’ve come to the right place! Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri is here to give you a better understanding of what an adoption plan is and what all it should cover regarding your adoption…

Types of Adoptive Families Who Want to Adopt  

Types of Adoptive Families Who Want to Adopt There are many adoptive families out there who are looking to find that special little one into their home and into their lives. As you may be aware, as a birth mother, the ideas of the typical family dynamics and structure may have changed. Yet, the love and comfort that can be found in an adoptive family has not changed. With so many loving adoptive families having their arms open to embrace little ones, you, as a birth mother, may have a hard time deciding which family structure you are most comfortable with. You may not even know what kind of family structures there are. That’s okay. Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri is here to provide you with a few options…

Selecting Your Child’s Adoptive Parentsas a Birth Mother in Kansas  

Selecting Your Child’s Adoptive Parentsas a Birth Mother in Kansas   Some things in life that require a specific mindset. One where we must ask questions and conduct thorough research to ensure that the outcome is one that we know we did the best. Finding the adoptive parents who you believe are suitable for your child is no exception. Parents help to build and shape the foundation of a child. They are responsible for being a good role model and influencing your child’s life in a positive and healthy way. As a birth mother, you’re, no doubt, trying to figure out how to find just the right family for your child. If you’re having a hard time sorting through all your questions or t don’t know where to begin, be sure…

5 of the Best Questions to Ask Potential Adoptive Parents as a Birth Mother in Kansas

5 of the Best Questions to Ask Potential Adoptive Parentsas a Birth Mother in Kansas Research. It’s not just for writing academic papers. It’s one of the biggest components you need to do whenever you make a decision you're unsure about. Looking into plans for adoption is no exception. There are so many questions that you find you need to research and figure out as you navigate through your decision. Do I need to go through an adoption agency? If I do, do I need to fit a certain criteria for them? How much is the entire process if I have to pay for it? Do I have to pay?  Can I talk to the potential adoptive parents? You may have certain things in mind that you’ll want for your…

6 Qualities to Look for in Adoptive Parents as a Birth Mother 

6 Qualities to Look for in Adoptive Parents as a Birth Mother As a birth mother with Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri, it's your absolute right to ensure that your child is in the best possible care, even if that means it won’t be with you. This is especially true if you are considering placing your baby for adoption. Finding the right adoptive parent(s) for your child is, quite possibly, the most intricate and hardest decisions you may ever make. There are a lot of questions that go into finding just the right adoptive parent(s) for your little one. So, there is no harm in putting together ideas on what you’re ideal adoptive parents are like. Since there is no “one size fits all” on adoptive parents, the idea…

I’m Pregnant Again! Can I Place My Baby with the Same Adoption Agency?  

I’m Pregnant Again! Can I Place My Baby with the Same Adoption Agency? You’re pregnant again. The second unplanned pregnancy in a row! Your living circumstances have not changed since your first unplanned pregnancy, so your mindset is still the same. You are not in a place to raise a child and do not want to be a parent. After your first adoption journey, you are well-versed in the expectations and saw your baby get placed in a loving and caring home. The agency you worked with was amazing and you’re glad you chose them! But now the question is: can I place my baby with the same adoption agency? Would the adoption agency work with me a second time, or would there be judgment and shame associated this time? I’m Pregnant…

3 Ways to Bond With Your Child’s Adoptive Parents

Ways to Bond With Your Child's Adoptive Parents With technology today, the ability to keep in contact with others is easier than ever before. We can befriend, follow and message people with just a few clicks and a send. Yet, at the same time, the idea of reaching out to others and knowing what to say can still be a daunting task. But that’s okay, as long as what you’re saying is coming from the heart. Technology works very much the same way when it comes to keeping in touch with your child’s adoptive parents. Especially if you have an open adoption or semi-open adoption agreement, it’s important to establish a strong and healthy relationship with your child’s adoptive parents throughout the adoption journey. This way, after the adoption has…

Adoption during the Pandemic: What it Looks Like  

Adoption during the Pandemic: What it Looks Like Since March 2020, Americans have had one topic on their minds: the coronavirus -- aka. COVID-19. The virus has caused many shut-downs all over the world. From restaurants to schools and even doctors offices. Those essential businesses that have not shut down look rather different, such as grocery stores and laundromats creating new policies for their patrons to have masks when entering into the facilities. As of right now, it is indeed a whole new world. But one service that has been hit just as hard, and isn’t nearly as focused upon as it could be, is adoption. If you need help now, visit us at Adoption Choices of Kansas and Missouri or call us toll free at 1-877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or…

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